Packet processing (decoding, encoding, file writing, etc) happens with
the main parent object (metafile) unlocked and only with the specific
child object (SSRC) locked.
During teardown we close all SSRC objects with the metafile locked,
without locking the SSRC objects. This opens up a race condition during
which SSRC closing can happen at the same time as packet processing.
Fix this by locking each SSRC object during teardown, and also clear out
the SSRC hash table while the metafile is locked, which serves as a
marker to a packet processing thread that processing should be skipped.
Closes#1663
Change-Id: I4e8a6a5abfd678a6cfd794a98470a49d60694207