TT#14008 fix erroneous crypto reset after rejecting DTLS
If DTLS is rejected in an answer via `DTLS=off` we must forget that DTLS
was previously offered, as otherwise a re-invite would detect the
fingerprint as changed if the re-invite doesn't offer DTLS again. We
also make sure DTLS is shut down if during stream init DTLS is not
given, when it was present before.
Change-Id: I48ee6f0ec5ec02f558a6799951552ea2272d0e96