Change packet_index functions to more closely match RFC
This became necessary because of the way Asterisk handles Sequence
numbers when changing SSRC. They continue to increment a single
sequence number even though the SSRC is different, on switching back
this causes the packet_index function to interpret this as many lost
packets. The previous function had dead-spots that would not adjust
the packet_index at all if the difference fell in these ranges. These
gaps always resulted in behavior contra what would happen in webrtc
clients.